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Chivalry From buying a woman dinner to opening a door for her, many of today's courting rituals are rooted in medieval chivalry. During medieval times, the importance of love in a relationship emerged as a reaction to arranged marriages, but was still not considered a prerequisite in matrimonial decisions. Suitors wooed their intended with seranades and flowery poetry, following the lead of lovelorn characters on stage and in verse. Chastity and honor were highly regarded virtues. In 1228, women first gained the right to propose marriage in Scotland, a legal right that then slowly spread through Europe. |
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Candles and flowers are a must. Not only are they pleasing to the
eye, but they evoke pleasurable aromas and thoughts. Don't use highly-scented
flowers or candles, though. You don't want to cover up the inviting
aromas of your meal. Dim the lights and put on soothing background
music. If you have a fireplace, you might want to consider setting
your table up in front of a blazing fire for added ambiance. Make
sure the answering machine is on and in silent mode, and be sure the
champagne is chilled and ready to pop! And, by all means, leave the
dishes for another day. Better
yet, why not invite your loved one into the kitchen to cook with you?
It can be a sensual experience. There are many cookbooks on foods
of love designed to make cooking together an intimate experience in
and of itself.
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